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You'll Stop Waking Up at 3AM the First Night You Do This (Sleep Doctor)
- He says waking around 1 to 3 AM is normal. Your core temperature rises then and you pass through lighter sleep.
- To fall asleep, he says you need three things to come down: anxiety, body temperature and heart rate.
- Don't get up to pee unless you really have to. He suggests rolling onto your back and counting to 20 to check.
- Don't look at the clock or your phone. Charge it across the room, even with the ringer on.
- His number one tip across his career: wake up at the same time 7 days a week, because your wake time sets when melatonin turns on that night.
What stops you waking up at 3AM the first night?
The 'one thing' is mostly about what you do after you wake. Dr. Breus says nearly everyone wakes briefly between 1 and 3 AM as body temperature starts climbing again. The trouble starts when you get up, check the clock and get annoyed, which raises your heart rate, temperature and anxiety. He recommends staying in bed, leaving the clock alone, and taking slow breaths until you fall back asleep.
Actionable
- Move your phone charger across the room tonight.
- If you wake up, roll onto your back and count to 20 before deciding to get up.
- Try 4-7-8 breathing: in for 4, hold for 7, out for 8. He says to do many rounds, around 20.
- Pick one wake time and keep it on weekends too.
- If you use a sleep tracker, look at the trend over a week instead of one night's number.
Lessons
- Your first thought at 3 AM is often negative. He says you can't always stop it, but you can change the second thought.
- He calls 8 hours a myth for many people. He sleeps about 6.5 to 7 hours himself.
- Sleeping in on weekends causes 'social jet lag', which he blames for rough Mondays.
- Trackers are estimates. Use them for patterns, and judge your sleep by how you feel.
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Channel: Thomas DeLauer. Published Oct 24, 2026. About 40 minutes.
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Why do I wake up at 3 AM?
In this interview, Dr. Michael Breus says core body temperature starts rising between about 1 and 3 AM, moving you into lighter sleep, so brief waking is common.
What does he suggest when you wake up at 3 AM?
Don't get up unless you really need the bathroom, don't check the clock, and use slow 4-7-8 breathing to bring your heart rate down.
Who is the sleep doctor in the video?
Dr. Michael Breus, a clinical psychologist who focuses on sleep.
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